Unless You Walk In Another's Shoes

Dear Reader:
I have been watching the story of the woman who had the husband who killed himself and she says he was a wife beater, but then there is the other wife (former) who says no he wasn't as bad as she meaning the present wife says he was. Well I have a problem that she never said he wasn't bad but that he just wasn't as bad protrayed. Well let me tell you having been in a bad relationship my self I know for a fact if you are on the outside and I am on the inside you can't summerize how bad it is for me. If a man hits a woman once you can rest assured he is capable of hitting again. And it don't get better it gets increasely worse. Once hit you never forget it and you start expecting it. And I watch my husband and I could tell when he was getting to that spot, so one day I stood up for myself and told him he had to go. I had the two children and I was not going to let him stay around to beat me to pulp. Funny the ex claims he wasn't that bad but she got out of the marriage and I am sure there was a reason that even she parted ways with him. When men or women are abusive there is not a place in their fight that they figure I have gone far enough and I better stop here. In a lot of cases this abuse in the death of the other spouse. Unless you have walked in another ones shoes you can't exactly say how well they fit.